relationship is a most beautiful thing happened to human being. We all meet some people with whom we never had a kinship, but they become so special in our life that it becomes hard to live without them. Let us see some points we should consider while playing a role in relationship. Many poets have described relationship as one of the most fascinating bond we ever make in our life. It's the most beautiful thing that happens to us.
love relationship is a relation that is entirely based on trust, belief of two people in each other. We come across many things in our lives, about which we do not tell anything to people near and dear to us, but we freely tell everything to our love. Many people find good lover but they fail to continue with their relationship, because they do not know their role as a lover.
Let us see some important points that we should take care of if we wish to be good lover for someone: Be a secrete admirer of your lover:
If your lover is good at something then do not praise him/her in his/her presence. Praising a person for what he/she is good, does not improve his/her qualities, but can cause over-confidence to be induced in him/her, which surely will be harmful for your lover. A good lover should never miss an opportunity to praise his/her friend in front of others when he/she is not around.
Don't proved him/her wrong in public:
As it is important not to praise our lover openly in his/her presence, it is also very much important to abstain from proving him/her wrong in front of other people. Take him/her away from the crowd and let him/her know where he/she is wrong. There is no point in proving your friend wrong in other's presence; it will spoil your lover's image in other's view. And additionally your relationship will be in danger.
Try to understand your lover:
It is always important to understand what your lover is worried about or what problems he/she is facing. Always try to understand the situation your lover is in and try to soothe him/her. It is evident that if people are undergoing some problems, they will not speak up their problems to their brothers or sisters, they will instead tell everything to their lover and friends. Let your lover speak up, just listen to him/her and be with him/her until your lover does not come out of frustration.
Pull Your lover Away From Making Mistakes:
If your lover is doing something wrong, it is your duty to let him/her know it at earliest. Keep in mind; best lover has to play a role of critic if he/she wants his/her loved ones to stop doing wrong things. But again keep in mind not to show your love ones mistakes in front of other people. Sometimes it is important to understand your bf/gf's intentions behind his/her actions and try to analyze situation, then only you should give your opinion.
The Ego Problem:
Never let ego spoil your relationship. It is no reason to be jealous if your lover is not at all able to speak to you and is with someone else, you have to be his/her lover, do not expect word of gratitude from the person you think is your bf/gf. Sometimes there could be a clash between you and your bf/gf, and you both stop talking to each other for some time, it is not at all wrong to speak first and say sorry to your lover, no matter what happens.
Try to Teach Good Things:
If you are a true lover, you should never give your hungry friend a fish, instead, you should teach him/her how to fish, this will give your friend food for lifetime. A good lover will never wish his/her friend to be dependent on someone.

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